Relational Life Therapy Coaching
Build Stronger Relationships, Together
Practical, skill-based coaching helping couples and individuals move from conflict and disconnection toward genuine intimacy and partnership.
Practical, skill-based coaching helping couples and individuals move from conflict and disconnection toward genuine intimacy and partnership.
Maybe the same arguments keep coming back. Maybe the distance between you is growing, even when you're in the same room. Maybe you're not fighting at all — but you're not really connecting either.
These patterns don't mean your relationship is broken. They mean you've developed habits of relating that no longer serve you. And the good news? Patterns can be changed.
The same arguments that never seem to get resolved, leaving both partners frustrated and unheard.
A growing gap where genuine closeness used to be — going through the motions without feeling connected.
Avoiding honest conversation out of fear it will escalate, leading to resentment building in silence.
Developed by Terry Real, RLT is a direct, skill-based approach to relationships. It doesn't just explore feelings — it teaches you how to communicate, repair, and connect in real time.
Identify the destructive cycles — the defensiveness, criticism, shutdown, or withdrawal — that keep you stuck in the same place.
Shift from blaming each other to understanding your own impact. Real change starts when both partners examine their role honestly.
Learn practical tools for emotional regulation, clear communication, and conflict repair — skills you can use in the conversation tonight.
"The problem isn't who's right. The problem is the pattern you're stuck in together."
Every person and relationship is different. Choose the coaching path that fits your situation.
Move from power struggles to genuine partnership. Joint sessions focused on breaking destructive cycles and rebuilding connection.
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Learn moreThis isn't abstract therapy talk. These are real shifts that clients notice in their daily lives and relationships.
Start Your JourneyArguments de-escalate faster. Conversations become productive instead of destructive.
Feel genuinely heard and understood, creating space for real vulnerability and closeness.
Express needs without attacking, and listen without defending. Skills that transform every relationship.
Greater regulation under pressure — showing up grounded instead of reactive, in every area of life.
A genuine sense of being on the same team — feeling connected, trusted, and truly chosen.
Clear expectations, mutual respect, and the confidence to hold both yourself and others accountable.
As a former business lawyer turned relationship coach, Koby brings a rare combination of pragmatic problem-solving and deep empathy to his work with clients.
After 20 years of watching people navigate conflict in high-stakes legal settings, Koby saw the same dynamics playing out in personal relationships — defensiveness, power struggles, and communication breakdowns. He shifted his career to help people build the relational skills that actually matter.
Grounded in Relational Life Therapy and currently pursuing a Master's in Clinical Psychology, Koby works with couples, men, and teen boys throughout British Columbia, Ontario, and across Canada. His approach combines compassion with accountability — honest, direct, and always in service of real connection.
Learn More About KobyStarting coaching doesn't need to feel overwhelming. Here's how it works.
A no-pressure conversation to understand your situation, answer questions, and see if coaching is a good fit.
Together we identify the patterns holding you back and create a clear path forward with practical goals.
Through regular online sessions, you build new skills and start seeing shifts in how you relate — at home, at work, and within yourself.
Whether you're a couple stuck in old patterns, a man looking to grow relationally, or a parent concerned about your teen — the first step is a conversation.
No pressure. No commitment. Just an honest conversation about where you are and where you want to be.